If men and women who are in deep love, can be playful with each other’s energies, there is no need of indulging in ***, because *** cannot give you anything — it simply takes something away from you. It brings your death closer. It is your life force. But if the woman and the man can just be playful, then they are enriching each other. Then the dialectics of life works, and they both are more than they were before. Both have gained; nobody has lost anything.