I don't understand why parents treat their daughters and sons differently. Even mom who is a woman.
An hour ago when I was about to start writing, I have got a call from one of the girls I am teaching self-love. She was just frustrated. No one aka parents is listening to her and expecting so much and judging her, "You don't do this, you are not capable of this or that." They never take time to listen to her what's she struggling in her mind and her body problems.
She told that her parents never try to understand and always support their son saying, "you are a girl, he is a boy. Don't go out without wearing dupatta on your head.
You can't wear these clothes. You don't look good."
I believe that's why women don't like to become a woman and think to be a man so that they don't need to put efforts to get their parents' love and affection. They can do whatever they want. Her conversation made me cry. We really need to think about it.
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What girl's mistake if she is a girl. Then why we don't give her love and care what we give to our sons. If we don't like daughter then why we give birth to daughters till we get boy baby.
Be grateful that you have a son because of her.
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If this is not going to change, our kids will commit suicide the way they are doing. Every year millions of people commit suicide.
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Can we at least stop putting a label on our kids and give them the same nurturing and love so that they don't need to go out and chase love, indulge themselves in bad habits like drugs and all which is always the wrong choice.
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Please share this to people so that we can make a difference. This change can start with us.