Our first teacher is our home where we see how our parents treat each other and we do what we see not what we are told.
I believe when we see our parents fighting with each other. We feel hurt and think, "It seems I was born in the wrong place." And when we become adult, we also do the same, because we didn't learn how to deal with real situations like relationships, failure, etc, because what we saw in front of us? Just Fight. And that's what we think that this is the only way to deal with the situation in life.
It takes years to heal that past wounds to move on and see the world with different